Title: In the Dream House
Author: Carmen Maria Machado
Genre: memoir
Domestic abuse in lesbian relationships isn’t something most people realize exists. It isn’t studied or written about. Many just assume that because women are usually on the receiving end of abuse, that two women together would be more peaceful. However, as this book illustrates, that isn’t the case. Machado tells us her story of being in an abusive relationship with a woman. Not only is this book important, but it’s beautifully written and told in a unique way.
From Goodreads: For years Carmen Maria Machado has struggled to articulate her experiences in an abusive same-sex relationship. In this extraordinarily candid and radically inventive memoir, Machado tackles a dark and difficult subject with wit, inventiveness and an inquiring spirit, as she uses a series of narrative tropes—including classic horror themes—to create an entirely unique piece of work which is destined to become an instant classic.
Machado’s story is told in mini-essays throughout the book. In each, she discusses events that occurred in their relationship, her viewpoints, her dreams, anything and everything. So much of it is philosophical and had I owned my own copy (thanks, library), it would have been one that I underlined a lot in because of the thoughts and phrases spoke to me. However, this book is about abuse and might be a difficult read for some, whether you are a lesbian or not doesn’t really matter, but the abuse will be familiar to many. But I really loved this book and definitely recommend it.
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